Not many people understand how homosexuals involve themselves in sexual intercourse. Although in a heterosexual relationship, the purpose of traditional sex has one purpose, which is to make babies – other than pleasure, stress relief and etcetera.
So, as the LGBT community is becoming more and more acceptable in society around the world, it is only normal for the need to understand the sexual life of the homosexual lifestyle as it is not thought in regular education.
In this article, we will go through the basic understanding of how homosexuals engage in sexual intercourse.
The basics
When it comes to the sex life of a homosexual couple, you need to understand the basic knowledge when it comes to homosexual sex life. You have the top and you have the bottom.
- Top – As the top in a homosexual relationship, the top will be the one thrusting their tool into their partner’s enigma. In a nutshell, the top in the homosexual relationship is the “giver” in the relationship.
- Bottom – As the bottom in a homosexual relationship, the bottom will be getting their enigma being thrust by their partner’s tool. So, in a nutshell, they are the “receiver” in a homosexual relationship.
Although this is the basic understanding of the sex life of the homosexual relationship, it does not apply to every gay relationship as the sex life can be as fluid as it can get.
Do ‘bottoms’ achieve orgasm?
It is quite clear that the top achieves orgasm through a number of organs, hormones, blood vessels and nerves working together which will result in ejaculating fluid that contains sperm through strong muscle contractions.
But how about bottoms in a homosexual relationship? How do they achieve orgasm? Fun fact, males have their own G-spot a.k.a. “P-spot” which stands for prostate. The prostate is located below the bladder and is shaped like a walnut. In comparison with the female G-spot, the male G-spot is easy to locate.
So now that we have to go through with the basics, here is why homosexual couples have sexual intercourse. Is it different compared to a heterosexual couple’s sexual intercourse?
How do homosexual couples conduct sexual intercourse?
The traditional way
Homosexual couples that conduct a traditional style of sex is not different from what heterosexual couples do. As mentioned above, the “top” in the homosexual relationship will insert their penis into the bottom’s anus. Once inserted, the top will thrust in and out of the bottom’s anus until orgasm is achieved for both of them.
However, it is known that the males’ anus does not produce lubricant as vaginas do. If penetrated sex is conducted without the use of lubricant, it will cause damage to the anus causing muscle tear. So, usually, lubricant is put as much as possible to ensure that the bottom does not get hurt during sex.
Another thing is that before conducting sex, the bottom will have to clean their anus as clean as possible for hygiene purposes. As spraying water into the rectum may not be enough, some (rare) people use an enema to clean the anus in order for it to be squeaky clean. Enema is a device that shoots liquid into the rectum.
Non penetrated sex
Some gay couples do not engage in penetrated sex as some just do not like being penetrated. So, in order to have fun without having penetrated sex involved, some gay couples opt to have foreplays as a replacement for penetrated sex. The foreplay is known as an “outerplay” is where both parties warm things up with each other where they create sexual arousal and desire for sexual activity. Examples of foreplay are nipple rubbing/sucking, kissing, cuddling and talking. Thus, giving emotional and physically intimate acts to one another.
Besides just foreplay, there is also oral sex involved where both parties give themselves mutual orals.
To add on, homosexual couples always engage in sex toys on each other during sexual intercourse as sex toys is also one of the ways to spice up their sex life as a replacement of non penetrated sex. The reason for this is sex toys are designed to use with endless possibilities as there are many options to choose from in order to have fun in bed.
Role Playing
Similarly to heterosexual couples, gay couples also engaged in role-playing as it helps them break the boundaries. Both parties will use their imagination and their creativity to the best of their ability during the role-play session. Just like heterosexual couples, gay couples also engage in role-playing not only for love but also for intimacy.
Frotting
Last but the least on the list is frotting. This form of sexual act may not be familiar to many people as this form of sexual act was popularised by gay men to disparage the practice of penetrated sex.
This form of sexual act involves penis-to-penis contact to create sexual sensations. Even though it reduces the risk of contracting HIV / AIDS, there are still risks of skin-to-skin sexually transmitted infections such as pubic lice and HPV.
Summary
As you can see, the sex life of homosexual couples is no different compared to heterosexual couples. Although, there are some minor differences that are unique to homosexual couples such as frotting for example. Regardless of people’s gender and sexual orientation, everyone needs sex. It is a natural act that has been going on since the creation of Earth.
With that, we hope this article gives you a better understanding of how homosexuals engage in sexual intercourse.
